Life Code: The New Rules for Winning in the Real World

Life Code: The New Rules for Winning in the Real World

Language: English

Pages: 244

ISBN: 1939457068

Format: PDF / Kindle (mobi) / ePub


In Life Code: The New Rules for Winning in the Real World, six-time New York Times #1 best-selling author Dr. Phil McGraw abandons traditional thinking and tells you the ugly truth about the users, abusers, and overall “bad guys” we all have in our lives. He also reveals the secrets of how they think and how they get to and exploit you and those you love. You’ll gain incredible insight into these negative people, which he refers to as BAITERs (Backstabbers, Abusers, Imposters, Takers, Exploiters, Reckless), and you’ll gain the tools to protect yourself from their assaults. Dr. Phil's new book gives you the “Evil Eight” identifiers so you can see them coming from a mile away, as well as their “Secret Playbook,” which contains the “Nefarious 15” tactics they use to exploit you and take what is yours mentally, physically, socially and professionally. Life Code then focuses on you and your playbook, which contains the “Sweet 16” tactics for winning in the real world.
 
Edgy, controversial and sometimes irreverent, Dr. Phil again abandons convention to prepare you to claim what you deserve and claim it now. You take flying lessons to learn to fly, swimming lessons to learn to swim, and singing lessons to learn to sing. So, why not take winning lessons to learn to win?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“autopsy” of a failed relationship. How did it die, and why? What was your ownership of the problems that arose? Were there things you should have done that you didn’t or things you shouldn’t have done that you did? Be honest, and put them all on your list of things to do, or not to do, going forward. But the to-do list has to be real. Your list has to consist of specific actions toward a realistic outcome, and progress toward achieving the items has to be measurable. That’s what makes a goal

you have always made a statement. Just because you may not have intended to or strategically selected and refined it doesn’t mean you don’t still project it. Maybe you’ve been passive about it, and if so, it’s time to get very active and consciously immerse yourself in both the process and the end product. To embrace this playbook and the strategy associated with it, you simply can’t be passive any longer. There is no reality, only perception. You will be judged and reacted to by who people

today’s highly competitive and less predictable environment. Remember, we teach people how to treat us. There is a new “Life Code” in today’s world that calls for different strategies, and if you want to win big, you have to play big, now. You need to get attention, not avoid it. You need to do things that put you on the radar, and you do that by making noise, by playing big. We use a lot of experts on our shows, The Doctors and Dr. Phil. We might send a film crew to San Francisco to interview

either way, you have evolved. Renegotiating a deal is not the same as reneging on a commitment if both sides ultimately agree to make a change. Just know that, especially in ongoing situations like a relationship with a spouse or children, negotiations never stop, because the changes never stop. Let’s Make a Deal Strategic Step 3: I always do my homework before I start negotiating. As I said earlier, women typically pay more for the things they buy than men do, and African-American women

innocent child. Leave it on the playground, because “that dog don’t hunt,” as we say in Texas—not in the real world it doesn’t. BAITERs: Who Are They? B Backstabbers A Abusers I Imposters T Takers E Exploiters R Reckless So, how do we refer to these people who cheat, exploit, use, and abuse? I think of them as BAITERs (for people who are “Backstabbers/Abusers/Imposters/Takers/Exploiters/Reckless”).1 We will talk in great detail later, but for now, understand that we are talking

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